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We invite you to experience a new approach to learning designed exclusively for professionals who are dedicated to strengthening relationships.
Bringing Baby Home
Help pregnant and parenting families in your community prepare for the transition to parenthood.
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Seven Principles
Teach The Seven Principles to couples in your community with the Gottman Seven Principles Leader Training.
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Clinical Tools
Discover the Gottman relationship tools to elevate couples therapy with interactive exercises and personalized modules.
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Best of the Gottman Blog
The Four Horsemen: Criticism, Contempt, Defensiveness, and Stonewalling
Being able to identify the Four Horsemen in your conflict discussions is a necessary first step to eliminating them and replacing them with healthy, productive communication patterns.
10 Ways to Rekindle the Passion in Your Marriage
A good sexual relationship is built on emotional intimacy and closeness.
How to Listen Without Getting Defensive
8 ways to listen non-defensively and improve communication.
How I Stopped Trying to Control My Partner and Took Responsibility for My Own Happiness
“We must learn what actually lies in our sphere of control — and learn to live strictly within that sphere”
Our Most Trusted Self-Help Tool
Your go-to self-help tool for all relationship needs; conflict, intimacy, and connection. Built on the trusted Gottman Method, it’s perfect for couples and singles seeking meaningful change. Start transforming your relationship today.
Find a Therapist
Use the Gottman Referral Network to easily find a Gottman-trained couples therapist near you.
Real Stories, Real Transformations
The Gottman Institute has helped countless individuals, couples, and families improve their relationships.
The Art and Science of Love
Discover The Art and Science of Love at our world-renowned weekend workshop for couples created by Drs. John and Julie Gottman and see for yourself why millions of couples worldwide have benefited from the Gottman Method.
The Gottman Blog
Read all about building lasting, healthy relationships in the dating and premarital section of the Gottman Relationship Blog.
