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Salsa Card Deck

Make continued romance and sex a priority with your partner using these cards developed from our world-renowned couples workshop!

Please check out the Gottman Relationship Coach, Enriching Your Sex Life for a related Gottman product.

What will I learn?

In this challenge, you will learn how to have a positive perspective in your relationship and strengthen your friendship with your partner, which is at the core of any great relationship. Learn to:

Knowing your partner’s love needs is an important key to a great relationship. But for many of us, talking about sex is difficult. Salsa Cards are a wonderful help in turning towards your partner — romantically or sexually — at the pace you choose. Use the cards to help you develop rituals and comfortable ways to talk about sex.

These brightly color-coded cards, which come in a handy card box, are divided into three sections:

  • Mild: For couples who would prefer romantic, but non-sexual suggestions.
  • Medium: For couples who are comfortable with sexual intimacy.
  • Hot: For couples who want to explore spicier sexual fantasies.

This exercise is used at the Institute’s world-renowned weekend couples workshop, The Art and Science of Love.

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Author

The Gottman Institute

Size

3.5 x 2.5 inches

$16.00

Make continued romance and sex a priority with your partner using these cards developed from our world-renowned couples workshop!

Please check out the Gottman Relationship Coach, Enriching Your Sex Life for a related Gottman product.

What you get:

Salsa Card Deck

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