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Gottman Relationship Coach: All About Love
Building a Life Together
So, You Found The One-
Start your journey through life together with this program, where we'll help you discover the power of shared dreams and goals, the importance of play and silliness, and the fulfillment of commitment and trust.
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in Building a Life Together you will discover the power of dreams and goals, both shared and individual, as you navigate a path towards making them come true.
All About Love Bundle
Fall in Love All Over Again-
Three best selling Gottman Relationship Coaches have been perfectly bundled to help you strengthen your love, deepen trust and commitment, and build a strong foundation to last a lifetime.
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Includes: Building a Life Together, Loving Out Loud, and How to Make Your Relationship Work.
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Life’s adventure is to love. What are you waiting for?
How to Make Your Relationship Work
Remove Negativity, Add Love-
Learn what it takes to build and maintain a happy, healthy connection that lasts a lifetime, all according to science.
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Remove harmful communication patterns while adding more laughter, communication, and love to your life.
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How to Make Your Relationship Work will teach you all about core Gottman relationship principles like The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse and The Sound Relationship House.
All About Love Programs Created by the World’s Leading Experts in Love and Relationships
Invest in your relationship today to experience a profound transformation. Deepen your love, apply real proven relationship skills, and build the foundation for a lifetime of lasting connection.
Includes 3 Coach programs below for one great price.
$298 $149
All About Love includes:
Original price was: $149.00.$99.00Current price is: $99.00.
You’ve decided to spend forever together. Congratulations! Making a commitment to one another is a time to celebrate and prepare for the new adventure ahead of you. This new journey is one of Trust and Commitment as you forge a path towards lasting love. You’ll have shared goals and new dreams to hope for, and plenty of fun and play. Don’t forget to soak in all the intimacy and romance along the way! So, take each other’s hands and get ready. Whether you’re committing to each other after a long time of casual dating or you’ve just swept each other off your feet, committing to each other is a big step, but don’t worry. With more than 40 years of research into how relationships work, the Gottmans are here to give you the tools you need for happily ever after.
This new program will help you learn:
- The difference between dreams and goals
- How to have conversations around your hopes for your lives, both individually and together
- The meaning of trust and commitment, and how to increase both in your relationship
- How to go “all in” on your relationship, and the fruits that it can bear
- How to introduce more fun, play, and adventure in your lives
- How to create your own Rituals of Connection
“Buy Now” will take you to GOTTMAN CONNECT to purchase and view this product.
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Original price was: $69.00.$39.00Current price is: $39.00.
Loving out Loud! Find the Passion Again. You and your partner must nurture a culture of fondness and admiration to find that spark again. In this all-new series of exercises, activities, and videos, Drs. John and Julie Gottman can show you how to love your partner even better. Upgrade your love life with this research-based series of conversations, skills, and practices designed to enhance the fondness and admiration in your relationship. In this program you will learn:
- All about the Sound Relationship House and how to build your own.
- How to ask better questions that lead to richer conversations.
- Better and more effective ways to express your love.
- How to get specific about the things you appreciate, and communicate them in ways your partner will really hear.
- What skills the “Masters of Relationships” practice regularly and how to implement them in your own relationship.
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Original price was: $119.00.$79.00Current price is: $79.00.
Research-based Foundations for a Lifetime of Love. The Gottman Relationship Coach is an inspiring and educational multimedia experience designed to enhance the well-being of relationships. Participants will be guided through research-based tools and communication skills that can transform relationships—all based on the popular Gottman Method. The first program, “How to Make Your Relationship Work”, is now available and includes:
- The Gottman Method and How to Make Your Relationship Work
- How do we predict the future of a relationship?
- How to build a Sound Relationship House
- What to do when the destructive Four Horsemen enter your relationship
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Original price was: $69.00.$39.00Current price is: $39.00.
Loving out Loud! Find the Passion Again. You and your partner must nurture a culture of fondness and admiration to find that spark again. In this all-new series of exercises, activities, and videos, Drs. John and Julie Gottman can show you how to love your partner even better. Upgrade your love life with this research-based series of conversations, skills, and practices designed to enhance the fondness and admiration in your relationship. In this program you will learn:
- All about the Sound Relationship House and how to build your own.
- How to ask better questions that lead to richer conversations.
- Better and more effective ways to express your love.
- How to get specific about the things you appreciate, and communicate them in ways your partner will really hear.
- What skills the “Masters of Relationships” practice regularly and how to implement them in your own relationship.
Limited Time Offer!
“Buy Now” will take you to GOTTMAN CONNECT to purchase and view this product.
Original price was: $79.00.$49.00Current price is: $49.00.
Learn how to foster intimacy and safety in your relationship and how doing so can lead to amazing sex in the new Gottman Relationship Coach, “Enriching Your Sex Life”. In this never-before-seen series of videos and conversation-starting exercises, Drs. John and Julie Gottman will guide you and your partner through opening up communication around sex, learning your partner’s preferences, exploring sensuality, and building sexual safety in your relationship.
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Ever wonder what’s really going on in your relationship?
Tired of getting into fights and unsure what to do next? Or perhaps you’re curious about which areas of your relationship need improvement?
The all-new Gottman Assessment, powered by the legendary scientific Gottman Method, can help you understand the state of your relationship—and get you the help you need to improve it.
Original price was: $149.00.$99.00Current price is: $99.00.
So you just had an argument. Now what? The latest program in the Gottman Relationship Coach, “Making Up After an Argument” includes a step-by-step exercise to help you and your partner process an argument and discover what you were really fighting about. In addition to our powerful “Aftermath of a Fight” exercise, “Making Up After an Argument” includes sections and exercises on feeling overloaded, taking effective breaks from conflict, and how to rebuild the lines of communication—even mid-argument.
Solve the mystery of what you and your partner really argue about to restore, repair, and revitalize the communication in your relationship. This new program will help you learn:
- How to process even the most difficult arguments and heal from them together.
- What to do when you are feeling overwhelmed and overloaded, what we call “Flooding”.
- What happens in your body when you are in conflict.
- How to calm yourself down, in or out of conflict.
- The importance of “repair attempts,” or ways to get the conversation back on track, plus how to notice and make them
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“Buy Now” will take you to GOTTMAN CONNECT to purchase and view this product.
Original price was: $149.00.$99.00Current price is: $99.00.
In “Dealing with Conflict” Drs. John and Julie Gottman guide you through a series of exercises, concepts, and communication skills that can truly change your conflict conversations. With these new skills, going from arguing to understanding is possible. Conflict is inevitable, combat is optional.
In this program you will learn:
- Why you keep fighting about the same things, and how to get “unstuck.”
- How to address recurring issues within your relationship.
- How to approach conflict conversations gently, in a way that addresses specific issues.
- How to identify what your feelings and experiences are around issues that are causing conflict, and how to gently bring them up with your partner.
- How to understand your partner’s side of an issue, and how to get your partner to understand where you’re coming from.
- How to examine the individual values, ideas, and beliefs that influence how you and your partner engage with the world around you.
- More about your own emotions.
“Buy Now” will take you to GOTTMAN CONNECT to purchase and view this product.
Original price was: $119.00.$79.00Current price is: $79.00.
Research-based Foundations for a Lifetime of Love. The Gottman Relationship Coach is an inspiring and educational multimedia experience designed to enhance the well-being of relationships. Participants will be guided through research-based tools and communication skills that can transform relationships—all based on the popular Gottman Method. The first program, “How to Make Your Relationship Work”, is now available and includes:
- The Gottman Method and How to Make Your Relationship Work
- How do we predict the future of a relationship?
- How to build a Sound Relationship House
- What to do when the destructive Four Horsemen enter your relationship
“Buy Now” will take you to GOTTMAN CONNECT to purchase and view this product.
Original price was: $149.00.$99.00Current price is: $99.00.
Do you feel seen, heard, and valued by your partner? One of the many benefits of a happy and healthy relationship is the feeling that you have someone who really “gets” you. But everyone has areas they could improve on, or be more intentional in their relationship. That’s what Feeling Seen and Heard, from the Gottman Relationship Coach, is all about. Learn from Drs. John and Julie Gottman how to be seen and heard, how to become a better listener and how to Turn Towards your partner more often in this series of videos and exercises.
When you show up for your partner, and when you feel seen and heard, your connection will deepen and you can even reduce your stress!
This new program will help you learn:
- How to identify and share your truth
- About what we call Bids for Connection, and the three ways you can respond to them
- How to Turn Towards your partner to make your relationship successful.
- A concept of an Emotional Bank Account and positive emotions, and how to
increase the balance in your Emotional Bank Account - How to identify and express your needs in the relationship
- How to be a great listener
- How to have a stress-reducing conversation
Limited Time Offer!
“Buy Now” will take you to GOTTMAN CONNECT to purchase and view this product.
Original price was: $149.00.$99.00Current price is: $99.00.
You’ve decided to spend forever together. Congratulations! Making a commitment to one another is a time to celebrate and prepare for the new adventure ahead of you. This new journey is one of Trust and Commitment as you forge a path towards lasting love. You’ll have shared goals and new dreams to hope for, and plenty of fun and play. Don’t forget to soak in all the intimacy and romance along the way! So, take each other’s hands and get ready. Whether you’re committing to each other after a long time of casual dating or you’ve just swept each other off your feet, committing to each other is a big step, but don’t worry. With more than 40 years of research into how relationships work, the Gottmans are here to give you the tools you need for happily ever after.
This new program will help you learn:
- The difference between dreams and goals
- How to have conversations around your hopes for your lives, both individually and together
- The meaning of trust and commitment, and how to increase both in your relationship
- How to go “all in” on your relationship, and the fruits that it can bear
- How to introduce more fun, play, and adventure in your lives
- How to create your own Rituals of Connection
“Buy Now” will take you to GOTTMAN CONNECT to purchase and view this product.
Limited Time Offer!
Original price was: $298.00.$149.00Current price is: $149.00.
Drs. John and Julie Gottman are excited to introduce a new Gottman Relationship Coach collection, All About Intimacy. With more than 40 years of research into relationships, Drs. John and Julie Gottman are here to share their knowledge with you. Learn from the experts in this new All About Intimacy Gottman Relationship Coach Bundle, which combines three of our most popular products: Loving Out Loud, Feeling Seen and Heard, Enriching Your Sex Life
Original price was: $298.00.$149.00Current price is: $149.00.
Drs. John and Julie Gottman are excited to introduce a new Gottman Relationship Coach collection, All About Love. With more than 40 years of research into relationships, Drs. John and Julie Gottman are here to share their knowledge with you. Learn from the experts in this new Gottman Relationship Coach Bundle, All About Love, which combines three of our most popular products: “How to Make Your Relationship Work,” “Loving Out Loud,” and “Building a Life Together.”
Original price was: $298.00.$149.00Current price is: $149.00.
Drs John and Julie Gottman are excited to introduce this Gottman Relationship Coach collection, All About Conflict.
The first program, “Dealing with Conflict” teaches the basics of communication in conflict. You will learn which of the problems your relationship faces are solvable, and which you may continue to encounter. If any of these perpetual problems have you stuck, the Gottmans can help you get “unstuck” and understand each other’s perspectives. “Dealing with Conflict” helps prepare you for the regular, inevitable moments of friction that are bound to arise in any relationship.
The second program, “What to Do After a Fight” teaches how to navigate more difficult arguments and the feelings that come along with them. If “Dealing with Conflict” makes regular communication “smooth sailing,” “What to Do After a Fight” helps you address rough waters to keep your relationship from capsizing. Often, more serious arguments arise because they touch on values and beliefs one or both of you hold dear. Explore what’s underneath the storm with the game-changing exercises contained in this program.
NOTE: If you already purchased “Dealing with Conflict” or “Making Up After an Argument” individually and want to take advantage of this special offer, make sure you are logged in to your Gottman Connect account and the price difference will automatically be deducted from your purchase of the second program.
Original price was: $250.00.$179.00Current price is: $179.00.
Transform Your Relationship
The Gottman Relationship Adviser is a complete approach to relationship wellness. Measure your relationship health with the research-based Gottman Assessment, analyze five key areas of your partnership to identify your strengths and weaknesses, then start a tailored, step-by-step digital program proven to heal and strengthen your connection—all on your schedule and from anywhere.
The Adviser uses the legendary scientific Gottman Method to help you understand what’s really going on in your relationship—and gives you exactly what you need to improve it.
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Frequently Asked Questions
Common questions answered below. More help: Gottman Support Center.
What is the Gottman Relationship Adviser?
The Adviser is an unparalleled approach to relationship wellness. Measure your relationship health with a research-based self-assessment, analyze key areas of your partnership to identify your strengths and weaknesses, then start a tailored, step-by-step digital program proven to heal and strengthen your connection. Improve your relationship on your schedule, from anywhere.
What is the Gottman Relationship Coach?
The Gottman Relationship Coach is a self-guided program based on the popular Gottman Method. the Coach is an inspiring and educational multimedia experience created and designed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman to enhance and transform the wellbeing of relationships. Participants access research-based relationship skill-building tools in a series of interactive videos, exercises, and card decks designed to inspire healthy communication and deeper connection.
What is the diference between the Gottman Relationship Adviser and the Coach Programs?
Whereas the Gottman Relationship Coach products address specific areas of your relationship you select, the Gottman Relationship Adviser is a complete relationship wellness program. The Adviser takes the guesswork out of improving your relationship by combining assessment and solutions all in one place. Start with a checkup to find out what you can improve, then follow a personalized, step-by-step plan for your relationship.
How does the Gottman Relationship Adviser analyze and explain my relationship?
The Adviser uses the Sound Relationship House Theory, created by world-renowned psychologists Drs. John and Julie Gottman. The Sound Relationship House is a foundational concept within Gottman Method and has been used successfully with hundreds of thousands of couples all over the world to help them understand and improve their relationships.
If I have purchased the Gottman Assessment or a Coach program, can I still experience the Gottman Relationship Adviser?
Yes, customers can benefit from taking the Gottman Relationship Adviser. The Gottman Relationship Adviser will give you a full snapshot of the state of your relationship based on a detailed self-assessment, then provides recommendations for improvement. You will also get credit for your original purchase at checkout, just login before you check out.
Do I have to take the Gottman Relationship Adviser with my partner?
No, you have the option to take the Gottman Relationship Adviser with or without your partner. You can take the Gottman Relationship Adviser alone to learn about yourself and your relationship, or you can invite your partner to take the Adviser as well, even after starting your own self-assessment. After you log in and invite your partner, they can access the Relationship Adviser by registering on Gottman Connect. Once they register, they will have the option to complete the self-assessment to receive their own custom relationship results..
Will my partner and I receive separate results?
Yes, you and your partner complete your own self-assessment and receive separate results based on your unique answers.
What does the assessment portion of the Gottman Relationship Adviser measure?
The Gottman Relationship Adviser can help you gain insight into your overall relationship health, friendship and intimacy, romance, sex, and passion, how you manage conflict, your shared meaning, trust, commitment, and more.
What if my partner and I decide we need to see a therapist after taking the Gottman Relationship Adviser?
You can find a Gottman-trained therapist on The Gottman Referral Network. This Network of experienced clinicians are certified the Gottman Method-based relationship-building techniques and can use your assessments and work with the Adviser or Coaches to help you get on the pathway to a healthy, long-lasting relationship more quickly.
