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The Pursuer-Distancer Dynamic

Terry Gaspard

While all couples need autonomy and closeness, many partners struggle with the pursuer-distancer dance and feel chronically dissatisfied with their degree ...

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Stepping Back to Save My Stepfamily

Real Relationships

All of the constructs I grew up with and believed I would carry on in my own family had to be ...

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My Sexual Fluidity Woke Me Up

Real Relationships

Judgments dehumanise and minimise the beautiful greyness of being human. ...

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Reclaiming Our Stories From Trauma

Jenny TeGrotenhuis

Our past may have written the script, but we can write a new script for how we respond in the present. ...

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How Coming Out Saved Our Marriage

Real Relationships

When Matt and Isaac got married, they were both still in the closet. ...

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Gottman Love and Sexuality Glossary

The Gottman Institute

Our guide on combining forms used to express different types of love and relationships, and how you may see them used. ...

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Here’s What Happened When I Went on Eight Therapist-Designed Dates

Logan Ury

We sent a dating coach and her boyfriend on eight dates designed by John and Julie Gottman. ...

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Divorce is the Most Important Story You’ll Ever Tell Your Child

Kerry Lusignan

Your story will become their story, so write it well. ...

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Maybe You Should Talk to Someone: An Interview with Lori Gottlieb

Michael Fulwiler

Lori Gottlieb is a psychotherapist and author of the New York Times best seller, "Maybe You Should Talk to Someone." ...

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Stop Creating Gratitude Lists and Do This Instead

Kristen Manieri

It’s time to have a thank you note revival. ...

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Pay Attention, for Passion’s Sake

Cheryl Fraser

Paying attention predicts relationship success. ...

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