The Four Horsemen: Criticism, Contempt, Defensiveness, and Stonewalling

By Ellie Lisitsa

Being able to identify the Four Horsemen in your conflict discussions is a necessary first step to eliminating them and replacing them with healthy, productive communication patterns.

Two Good Reasons to Save Your Marriage

By The Gottman Institute

You’d be surprised what a good relationship can do for you

Why Turning Against Your Partner’s Bids Is So Harmful

By Vagdevi Meunier

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Head vs. Heart: Solving Meta-Emotion Mismatches for a Stronger Bond

Kyle Benson

Parents Everywhere Are Tired: The truth about parenting fatigue

Kari Rusnak

Parenting fatigue is an all too common experience that can cause negative health symptoms and a drop in relationship satisfaction. ...

What Is the Difference Between Stonewalling and Gaslighting?

Laura Silverstein

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Touch More, Touch Often

Cheryl Fraser

How to strengthen fondness and admiration - without saying a thing ...

Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy

Vagdevi Meunier

Who doesn’t want a relationship that has a wonderful friendship base, tackles gridlocked and perpetual conflict with ease and humor, and ...

Date Your Mate!

Cheryl Fraser

Why date night rejuvenates long term relationships - if you do it right. ...

The Secret Ingredient to a Thriving Relationship: Turning Towards Each Other

Kyle Benson

What Porcupines Can Teach Us About Making Love

Laura Silverstein

Dr. Gottman's "porcupine sex" story is a comical depiction of an all-too-familiar dynamic between men and women in the bedroom. ...

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